✨ Add unitary matrix to gate definitions in MLIR tablegen

[taminob]

Description

Define unitary matrix definition for 1- and 2-qubit gates via MLIR tablegen.
This avoids a dependency to the dd package which already contains the gate definitions.

Required for #1182 and #1206

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[taminob]

Closed in favor of #1426 for new QCO dialect